I think i like him...??

i guess i kinna like him. super cute, nice hair, skinny, in a band, but everyone thinks he is gay. i personally love gay people, but i dont really want to go out with one because im a girl who likes straight guys to go out with. i dont think hes gay, but im afriad to ask him, i might offend him. he says that everyone teases him at school.

ive tried calling him and he changed his number without telling me. i went to the movies with him a couple times, i used to go to school with him, and i talked to him on myspace a lot when i had one. is he avoiding me? does he like hate me? hes gone out with my ex best friend (skank) and i think he likes her again also, but i dont know what to do. i try talking to him when we go out somewhere, but i get nervous around him, more than normally.

i cant get ahold of him! i miss him

i am so confused about this whole situation, i just need advice/help/something!

-thanks so much

I think i like him...??

He could just be out of town for the holidays.

My son's away at his father's place half way across the country, he just recently changed his cell phone number( and he didn't take it with him, he left it at home so he could actually enjoy his time away from his girlfriend and everyone else) and hasn't been on his "myspace" since October, his band has been rehearsing a lot more recently as a matter of fact they just recorded another single that I think the band might put up on their "myspace" page, but I'm not sure about that. He's under a lot of stress at school, being in AP and honors classes and gearing up to go to college next year.

I've never heard anyone think he was gay though, (trust me, since he's been raised by two lesbians I'm sure I would have heard from one of his friend's parents) he's been dating the same girl for over two years now. He's simply not "on the market" as it were.

If this sounds like the guy you like, I'm sure my son will be flattered, but it's not that he's gay, he's taken.

But it's possible that the guy you like could just be going through a similar situation as my son.

I think i like him...??

LOL I only get sad to actually watch him leave towards the security checkpoint at the airport and for the rest of that day. Until he calls to tell me he arrived fine, then I'm fine.

But thanks so much, hope you have a great holiday too! Report It

I think i like him...??

Well it sounds to me like the next move ( if any ) is his.

I think i like him...??

oh ok (move on get a guy u know thats not gay)

I think i like him...??

sorry no answer to much to read

I think i like him...??

Maybe try writing him a letter? It's old-fashioned, but it might allow you to get your point across without awkwardness.

If your ex best friend is of the female persuasion (which from your comment sounds like a yes), then he's probably not gay (so there's no reason to bring that up unless he does).

Writing to him might allow you to lay it all out on the table, just be prepared for the possibility that he says, "No, I'm with the skank." The best solution would be for you to get a frinedly dialogue open with him (just talking as friends), while keeping your eyes open for other options too. If you are friends, it will give oyu a better sense of where he is in his life, and make you a more valuable relationship option for him. And if you keep your eyes open and don't bet the farm on him, then if you see Mr. Right, you can snag him up too, and have two important men in your life.

I think i like him...??

question 1: how well does he know you personally?

question 2: is he usually nice to you and talkative or does he pretend to be nice and kinda ignore you most of the time?

question 3: how pretty are you?

if you answered Q1: pretty well, very well

if you answered Q2: nice to me and likes talking to me

if you answered Q3: decent looking, pretty, very pretty

then read answer 1.

if you answered the opposite for all 3 questions, read answer 2.

if your answers are mixed, read answer 3.

answer 1: if you get a chance to be with him, ask him whether he would ever be interested in you. if he is open with you and likes to talk to you and thinks you're attractive, then you should have the confidence to ask him, and however he answered the question, it should give you a big clue.

answer 2: don't pursue him. you can dream about him and stuff at night, but just know that you and him aren't meant to be.

answer 3: have someone kidnap him, tie him up, blindfold him, and bring him to your home when nobody's home. then have wild sex and everything else with him, however many times you want. after that, whether he likes you or not, it won't matter anymore, and you definitely won't miss him anymore. after you're done, drop him off somewhere and make sure he doesn't know who it was.

I think i like him...??

answer this some place else u DORK.